Intro

Sorry for the length, but I didn't have time to write a short blog.

Sunday, May 24, 2020

No Names Needed



I will just leave this here. 

A while back there was a discussion on TV about how social sites have added to our own narcissism, which is not the same as the personality disorder listed below. But it is true, to a degree, that social sites and their anonymity offers many the opportunity to believe their expertise is actually more than it is. There are also many folks who post divisive memes and statements that they would never do in person. I know a few folks who seemingly have completely different personalities online than they do in the real world. So while you may have one or two of these symptoms, you probably don't qualify as a full-blown narcissist. Sadly, if you do, you probably won't realize it.

I will let you draw your own conclusions if this reminds you of anyone. I remind you, I have listed no names of any specific person. 
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From the Mayo Clinic (you can also find these same or similarly stated symptoms listed on any number of web sites.) 
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"Narcissistic personality disorder is indicated by five or more of the following symptoms:
  • Exaggerates own importance
  • Is preoccupied with fantasies of success, power, beauty, intelligence or ideal romance
  • Believes he or she is special and can only be understood by other special people or institutions
  • Requires constant attention and admiration from others
  • Has unreasonable expectations of favorable treatment
  • Takes advantage of others to reach his or her own goals
  • Disregards the feelings of others, lacks empathy
  • Is often envious of others or believes other people are envious of him or her
  • Shows arrogant behaviors and attitudes
At the same time, people with narcissistic personality disorder have trouble handling anything they perceive as criticism, and they can:


  • Become impatient or angry when they don't receive special treatment
  • Have significant interpersonal problems and easily feel slighted
  • React with rage or contempt and try to belittle the other person to make themselves appear superior
  • Have difficulty regulating emotions and behavior
  • Experience major problems dealing with stress and adapting to change
  • Feel depressed and moody because they fall short of perfection
  • Have secret feelings of insecurity, shame, vulnerability, and humiliation
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I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, or mental health counselor...and yet...I get the feeling I've seen all of these symptoms and behaviors in someone...if I could just remember who...

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